When you get pregnant with your second child, chances are that you’ll spend the next nine months worrying quite a bit. Sure, you know how to handle a newborn, and you know all the tricks that go along with feeding and burping. You’ve been through the introduction of solids, and those crazy few months of your little person becoming mobile. An added bonus is that your house is already baby-proofed! More than any of that, chances are that your busy social schedule has long been traded for countless nights of Netflix binging. So no worries about how you’ll adjust to your new life as an exhausted parent, falling asleep on the couch by 10 p.m.
But when you learn that you’ll be adding a second child to the family, you worry about different things: How will your older child adjust to the change? How will you and your partner deal with the baby when a toddler is already a handful? Everyone talks about the big switch from zone defense to man-to-man—but how will that translate in your household?
As I wade through my first few weeks as a mother of two, I have come to realize a few things that I hadn’t really considered before. I still have a lot to figure out (how do you handle a toddler mid-tantrum when the baby is screaming to be fed??), but my husband and I are slowly getting our ducks in a row.
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